Q. My Husband Doesn't Like to Kiss Anymore

A. Kissing often goes by the wayside in long-term relationships unless steps are taken to bring it back. I suggest the following:

1. Explain your thoughts at a time you're *not* kissing.
2. Watch my DVD on The Art of Kissing or romantic movies for inspiration.
3. When watching a good kiss on film, comment, "I'd like to be kissed like that."
4. Entice him with sexy clothes, perfume, etc.
5. Ask him if he'd like to have sex with or kiss ________. Fill in the name with the latest starlet or singer. Fantasy works wonders wonders, and you can use it yourself. Marilyn Monroe employed this stratagem when kissing on the set of films.
6. Withhold favors unless kissed properly.
7. Demand kisses in the kitchen.
8. Kiss him on the neck and bite his ears. Pull his hair. Do something to go outside the norm.
9. Use aphrodisiacs such as maca or others to boost his libido.
10. Read Lady Chatterly's Lover together. The novel can inspire more romantic interludes.
11. If all else fails, have him contact me for kissing lessons.